"You're exhausted.
You feel behind. And it's not your fault."
10 Demandments of Time on a Woman.
Sisterly, Snarky, Therapeutically Rigorous.
“No Hurt, Only Healing”
“This book gave me permission to stop running.” — Jess, 38
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The High-Achieving Professional
"I've read dozens of self-help books. This one is different. It doesn't tell you to 'manage your time better.' It tells you the truth: the system is rigged against you. The 10 Demandments named the invisible demands I had been obeying my entire life. I finally understand why I'm exhausted. I finally know what to do about it."
Stephanie K., Partner at Law Firm
49The Homemaker
"I chose this life. I love my family. I love my home. But I was drowning. This book didn't tell me to leave my husband or get a career. It told me I was allowed to rest. That my exhaustion wasn't a sign of failure - it was a sign that the demands were unreasonable. I cried reading Demandment 8. I gave myself permission to stop. For the first time in years, I feel like I can breathe."
Rebecca L., Homemaker & Homeschooling Mother
37The Burnout Survivor
"I was diagnosed with burnout. I thought I was broken. This book helped me realize I wasn't broken - I was responding normally to an abnormal system. The 10 Demandments gave me a framework to understand my exhaustion. More importantly, they gave me a path out. I'm not cured. But I'm healing. And that's everything."
Monique D., Therapist
44The Reluctant Reader
"I'm not a self-help person. I thought this would be another book telling me to 'lean in' or 'optimize my morning routine.' I was wrong. This book is different. It's honest. It's snarky. It's deeply empathetic. It doesn't blame me for being exhausted - it names the system that's exhausting me. I'm now recommending it to every woman in my life."
Rami H., Filmmaker
51The Young Mother
"I picked up this book because I couldn't afford therapy. I didn't expect it to change my life. But it did. Demandment 4 - 'Prioritize Others' Time' - hit me like a truck. I realized I hadn't done anything just for me in years. I started reclaiming my time. Not hours. Just minutes. And those minutes changed everything."
Tanya W., Social Worker & Mom of Two
34The Spiritual Seeker
"This book is not religious. But it spoke to my soul. It helped me see that my exhaustion was not a spiritual failing - it was a systemic one. I no longer feel guilty for resting. I no longer apologize for needing time. I feel like I'm finally living in alignment with my true self."
Sana M., Yoga Instructor & Wellness Coach
39The Empty Nester
"I raised three children. I worked full-time. I kept a home. I thought I was fine. But after my kids left, I realized I had no idea who I was. This book helped me understand why - I had been performing for so long, I forgot there was a person underneath. I'm 62. I'm finally learning who I am. And I'm not done yet."
Petronella O., Retired Accountant
62WHAT ARE THE 10 DEMANDMENTS?
Explore the lies about time that are running your life.
The 10 Demandments of Time on a Woman is your map. Each Demandment includes: The Anatomy of the Lie, The Tools It Uses, The Wound It Inflicts, How to Identify It, and Healing the Wound – with rituals, reframes, and rebellions.
The Corporate Executive – Mina's Story
"I've spent 20 years climbing the corporate ladder. I'm a CEO. I have a corner office. I have everything I was told I wanted. But I was exhausted. Not just tired - exhausted to my bones. I thought it was the job. I thought it was my age. I thought it was my personality. I was wrong. When I read The 10 Demandments of Time on a Woman, I realized I had been obeying invisible rules my entire life. Demandment 3: 'Balance Everything' - I thought I was supposed to. Demandment 4: 'Prioritize Others' Time' - I thought that was leadership. Demandment 6: 'Worship at the Altar of Productivity' - I thought that was success. I broke down crying on page 42. It wasn't just that the book saw me - it named the cage I had built around myself. I'm still a CEO. I still work hard. But I no longer feel guilty for resting. I no longer apologize for taking time for myself. And I finally understand that my worth is not my output. This book didn't just change my life - it saved it."
Mina M., CEO
44The Young Professional – Cheyene's Story
"I'm 31. I should be full of energy. But I'm exhausted. I thought it was normal. I thought it was just 'adulting.' I thought everyone felt like this. The 10 Demandments of Time on a Woman showed me that exhaustion isn't normal - it's a symptom. Demandment 2: 'Achieve Milestones on Schedule.' I had been running a race I didn't sign up for. Career by 25. Marriage by 30. Kids by 35. I was terrified of missing the marks. But the marks were never mine. The schedule was never mine. I had been measuring my life against a timeline I didn't create. I'm still figuring it out. But I'm no longer terrified. I'm no longer running. I'm finally learning to be where I am. And that's enough."
Cheyene D., Marketing Manager
31The Skeptic – Danielle's Story
"I bought this book because I was curious. I finished it because I was desperate. And I changed because I was finally seen. I'm not a self-help person. I'm skeptical of 'wellness.' I've never been to a yoga class, and I don't believe in crystals. But this book isn't about any of that. It's about naming the system that's crushing us. I started highlighting passages on page 10. I ended up highlighting almost the entire book. Demandment 6: 'Worship at the Altar of Productivity' - that was me. I had been worshipping productivity for so long, I forgot there was a person underneath. I'm not cured. I'm not suddenly perfect. But I'm more awake. More aware. More free. And I'm buying copies for every woman in my life."
Danielle T., Architect
48The Tired Feminist – Elena's Story
"I'm a feminist. I've been fighting for equality my whole life. I thought I was fighting the patriarchy. But this book showed me I was fighting the clock. Demandment 5: 'Fear the Ticking Biological Clock.' Demandment 9: 'Compare Thy Timeline.' I had been measuring my life against everyone else's. I had been panicking about time. I had been exhausted from the fight - not because I was losing, but because I was fighting the wrong enemy. Feminism gave me the right to work. It didn't give me the right to rest. The 10 Demandments completed the picture. I can be a feminist and practice time sovereignty. I can fight for equality and still rest. I'm still fighting. But I'm also resting. And that's not surrender - it's strategy."
Elena V., Professor
47The Entrepreneur – Rachel's Story
"I built an empire. I started my company from scratch. I grew it into a successful business. I had everything I was told I wanted. But I lost myself. I didn't have time for hobbies. I didn't have time for friends. I didn't have time for me. I was successful, but I was empty. This book helped me understand why. Demandment 6: 'Worship at the Altar of Productivity.' I had been worshipping productivity for so long, I forgot there was a person underneath. I started small. I took an hour for myself. I learned to say no. I started resting without guilt. It felt wrong at first. Then it felt necessary. Now it feels like liberation. I'm still an entrepreneur. I still work hard. But I no longer work at the expense of myself. And that's the biggest success I've ever had."
Rachel W., Founder & Creative Director
39The Stay-at-Home Mom – Jessica's Story
"I chose to stay home with my children. I love it. I love them. But I was drowning. I thought that because I chose this life, I wasn't allowed to be tired. I thought that because I wasn't working outside the home, my exhaustion wasn't valid. This book showed me that I was wrong. Exhaustion doesn't care if you wear an apron or a blazer. The demands are different. The exhaustion is the same. Demandment 8: 'Seek Permission to Heal.' I had been waiting for my husband to tell me to rest. I had been waiting for my children to be grown. I had been waiting for a sign. And then I gave myself permission - not because I had earned it, but because I needed it. I'm a better mother now. Not because I do more. Because I'm more present. I'm a better wife. Not because I serve more. Because I'm more alive. I'm a better me. Because I finally stopped."
Jessica R., Mother of Three
38The Book
The Permission Slip You've Been Waiting For
You have been running. Racing a clock you didn’t set. Chasing a finish line you never chose. Measuring your worth by output, your time by other people’s demands, your life by milestones that were never yours.
This book is your permission to stop.
The 10 Demandments of Time on a Woman is not a productivity manual. It is not another list of things to do. It is a therapeutic rebellion – snarky, sisterly, and rigorously healing.
Inside, you will discover:
– The 10 lies about time that are running your life
– Why you can’t rest (and how to reclaim rest without guilt)
– How to say no without apology or explanation
– Rituals that rewire your nervous system for sovereignty
– Rebellions you can start today – small, fierce, and yours
You are allowed to rest.
You are allowed to say no.
You are allowed to take up space.
You are allowed to choose yourself.
Available in Printed and EBook version
For Deeper Healing
The Workbooks - Where Healing Meets Practice
The book gave you the map. The workbooks are where you walk the path. Each of the 10 Demandments has its own dedicated workbook – a structured, therapeutic deep-dive into one lie, one wound, one healing journey at a time.
You gain by completing the workbooks that speak to your wounds, and you will:
- Name the specific lies operating in each area of your life
- Trace their origins – where they came from, who benefits, how they took root
- Feel and understand the wounds – the psychological and spiritual injuries inflicted
- Heal through practical strategies – rituals, tracking, reframes, embodiment
- Integrate new patterns through daily practices and 30-day calendars
Build your personal rebellion manifestos – declarations of independence from each lie - Experience what it feels like to live free from the lies you were told
- Join a community of women doing the same work
- Become a time rebel – a woman who knows her time is her own
Why the workbooks work:
Because insight alone does not heal. Practice heals. Repetition heals. Showing up for yourself, week after week, with a pen in your hand and a commitment in your heart – that is how you become the Time-Sovereign Woman.
"I spent forty-two years believing I was broken. The main book woke me up. The Workbooks walked me through the healing. For the first time in my life, I realized: I wasn't broken. I was wounded by lies I never chose to believe. The Time Abundance Ceremony changed something in me that talk therapy never could. I'm slower. I'm present. I'm free." Workbooks Used: Reclaiming Childhood & Seize Your Moment
Sonya, Mother, Teacher, Survivor of the "Hurry Wound"
42"I was the woman who had it all - and I was drowning. The Effortless Lie cracked me open. The Permission to Struggle Ritual made me sob in my kitchen at 2 AM. Being Enough helped me separate my worth from my output. I stopped measuring my value by what I produced. I started measuring it by who I was." Workbooks Used: The Effortless Lie & Being Enough
Nisha, Corporate Lawyer, Recovering Perfectionist
34"At 51, I was supposed to be invisible. Untying Life's Lines blew that narrative apart. I started painting again. I started saying yes to things that scared me. I stopped apologizing for my age, my wrinkles, my wisdom. At 51, I'm just getting started." Workbooks Used: Untying Life's Lines & Uncompared
Rachel, Artist, Empty Nester, Woman Told to Apologize for Aging
51"I was a busyness addict. My calendar was a crime scene of stolen hours. Being Sovereign changed everything. Seize Your Moment showed me that the problem wasn't the clock - it was my belief about the clock. I'm 29. I used to think I was running out of time. Now I know: I have all the time I need." Workbooks Used: Being Sovereign & Seize Your Moment
Myriam, Entrepreneur, Recovering Busyness Addict
29For Deeper Introspection
The Reflection Journals - A Tender Companion for Your Soul
This is a Collection of Compassionate Companions for Your Healing Journey. If you have seen the 10 Demandments Workbooks, you know they are deep, structured healing journeys – with tracking logs, body maps, rituals, and 30-day calendars.
The Reflection Journals are something different entirely.
Each Reflection Journal addresses one of the 10 Demandments – one lie, one wound, one tender journey home. These Journals are private, tender, and spacious companions. They allow the “where” – the quiet room where you sit with each wound, feel what you were never allowed to feel, and let the healing begin at its own pace.
What makes these journals different:
- No exercises. No tracking. No “right way” to use them.
- Just prompts that invite, never demand.
- Wide, open space for your words, your grief, your hope, your becoming.
- One journal for each Demandment – one pain, one resolution, each step on your journey home.
When to use them:
When you need to slow down. When you need to listen. When the structured work feels too heavy and you just need to be held by blank pages.
"I spent years feeling like I was perpetually behind - in my career, as a mom, in my own life. Sunday nights were my worst enemy. This journal didn't give me more hours in the day. It gave me something better: permission to stop measuring. The sister stories made me cry - not because they were sad, but because I finally felt seen. I still get anxious sometimes, but now I have words for it. And I have a ritual that brings me back to myself." *Journal Used: Reflection Journal 10 - Seize Your Moment.
Sarah M. High School Teacher & Mother of Two
44"My entire identity was built on being busy. If I wasn't producing, I felt invisible. This journal gently - and sometimes snarkily - pulled the rug out from under that lie. The blank pages were the most healing part. I didn't realize how much I needed empty space until I had it. I no longer feel guilty about resting. And that, for me, is revolutionary." *Journal Used: Reflection Journal 6 - Being Enough.
Nomsa, Marketing Director
34"I work with women every day who are terrified of aging - and I was no exception. This journal gave me a language for what I was feeling. The permission slip sits on my bathroom mirror. I read it every morning. 'You have permission to age proudly.' I assigned this journal to myself before I ever recommended it to a client. Now I recommend it to all of them. It's gentle, honest, and deeply healing." *Journal Used: Reflection Journal 7 - Untying Life's Lines.
Rachel, Psychotherapist
29"I thought I was failing because I couldn't do it all perfectly. This journal sat me down and said: 'You were never supposed to.' The sister stories were like conversations with women who just gotit. No judgment. No 'try harder.' Just presence. I laughed. I cried. I underlined almost every page. This isn't a book you finish - it's a book you live inside for a while. And when you come out, you're different." *Journal Used: Reflection Journal 3 - The Effortless Lie.
Olga, Small Business Owner & Single Mother
39YOU'RE NOT ALONE.
Join thousands of women breaking the chain – one ‘no’ at a time, one rest at a time, one rebellion at a time. This is a private space of no pressure, no hurt, only healing, and somewhere to be yourself.
• Dedicated forums for each Demandment
• Weekly challenges and accountability
• Discussion Groups and plenty of tips. strategies and guidance
• No ads. No algorithms. A therapeutic space.
ALSO EXPLORE THE COMPLETE COLLECTION OF BOOKS IN THE 10 DEMANDMENTS SERIES HERE
“Superiority is not an accident – it’s a strategy.
This Book Series unmask the hidden rules of power – and break them up in it’s evil parts to lay them bare – “To give victims of superiority the tools to see their chains, heal their wounds, and reclaim their sovereignty”
This book is a relentless, compassionate, and snarky deconstruction of the toxic doctrines of hyper-capitalism, hustle culture, and the attention economy that have taken up residence in your psyche. Each chapter diagnoses one of the ten lies you’ve been sold, names the wound it inflicts, hands you the tools to identify it in real-time, and guides you through the healing.
A Radical, Compassionate, and Unflinching Guide giving men permission to say “me too” in a culture that has told them they’re not allowed to need anything.
It is a system that didn’t just exploit your labor. It exploited your silence. It told you that feelings were weakness, that rest was theft, that your only worth was what you provided. This book is the permission slip to stop.
This Book is a radical, youth-driven manifesto that reframes voting as a conditional contract – a set of 10 non-negotiable demands that must be met.
Preamble: We, the First Global Generation, heirs to a world of interconnected crises and broken promises, declare our sovereignty. Our vote is not an offering. It is a contract. To earn it, you must bind yourself to these Demandments. Serve justly, or be removed.